Carol Dweck's book "Mindset" promotes students moving from a fixed mindset, meaning they presently possess all of the talents and abilities they will ever have, to a growth mindset, meaning their abilities grow with effort, practice, and strategies. (Go to my Mindset blog and click on the links.) What are some of the ways we might encourage students to have a growth mindset?1. Show them that your successes have come because of effort.
2. Ask them them questions that show that you value growth over fixed mindsets eg. "What mistakes did you make today that you learned from?" (Carol Dweck)
3. Ask them them questions that show that you value growth over fixed mindsets eg. "What did you put the most effort into today?" (Carol Dweck)
4. Make statements that show that you value growth over fixed mindsets eg. When they finish something they are proud of say "Wow, you really put a lot of effort into that!" (Carol Dweck)
5. Be an example of learning from your mistakes eg. President Hinckley saying that if the interview for 60 Minutes didn't go well that he wouldn't put his foot in that trap again.
6. Involve them in meta cognition (thinking about thinking). Talk them through your thinking when you were in a growth mindset.
7. Point out growth and fixed mindset actions in television shows as you watch them together.
8. Help them avoid the TV shows that leave out the work that growth takes. This is most of them since the plot usually has to resolve in 30 minutes.
9. If the TV show makes an allusion to the work, discuss what it would take in real life for that good thing to happen.
10. Pass along family attitudes eg. "Any job is better than no job." (Dad)
11. Display quotes about work by respected authorities eg. “Our primary purpose [is] to set up, in so far as it might be possible, a system under which the curse of idleness would be done away with, the evils of a dole abolished, and independence, industry, thrift and self-respect be once more established amongst our people. The aim of the Church is to help the people to help themselves. Work is to be re-enthroned as the ruling principle of the lives of our Church membership” (in Conference Report, Oct. 1936)
12. “There is no royal road to anything that is worthwhile. Nothing that is deserving of earning or of cherishing comes except through hard work. I care not how much of a genius you may be, the rule will still hold” (J. Reuben Clark Jr.)
13. “Do not ever look down on those who labor in occupations of lower income. There is great dignity and worth in any honest occupation. Do not use the word menial for any labor that improves the world or the people who live in it. There is no shame in any honorable work” (Boyd K. Packer, in Conference Report, Apr. 1982, p. 121; or Ensign, May 1982, p. 84). (Dad was right in line with the apostles.)
14. “There are few things that give me more pain than to see young men and women who do not realize their potential, who do not … discipline themselves into the work necessary to acquire the skills and learning characteristic of a good education. There is too much indolence, too much watching of television, too much sunning on the lawn, too much seeking after pleasure, too much dependence upon the opinions and work of others, too little self-reliance” (Dallin H. Oaks, “The Formula for Success at BYU,” Speeches of the Year, 1979 [Provo: Brigham Young University Press, 1980], p. 169).
15. Memorize and sing with your family "Put Your Sholder to the Wheel."
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